So me and my buddy from high-school moved back to our hometown this year and reconnected, on a drunken night we hooked up and kept hooking up as we discussed not wanting to be in relationships and just be fwb. Completely fine with me as the feelings were mutual. But now a few days after I tested positive his ex mentioned that she's been having pregnancy symptoms too because they hooked up the last time she was in town. Also, completely fine with me. I'm more of an ethical non-monogamist in the first place.

But the issue is how overwhelmed he is, which is understandable but I feel sad because he was in love with her, and we were just platonic and I'm positive he would choose supporting her over me. This started with both of us on the same page and now I feel like I'm going to do this alone.

From the friend side I feel like thier relationship was completely toxic as her family was overly involved in thier relationship and of course she has some toxic habits as well. It hurt me to hear all the terrible things that happened to my friend but as the baby momma I feel like it's not my place to say anything cause there's a new bias in out relationship. To be fair he's not my first choice either but I was just hoping to have a partner in this even if we aren't a couple.

So I guess I'm just looking for comfort, or advice, even just to vent 😩 im overwhelmed too. But I'm trying not to compare sides.