I’m due with my first baby in two weeks (hopefully). All family members are asking about thanksgiving plans and I keep answering “it depends on when the baby comes and how I feel if I’ll be joining or staying home”… apparently that’s not the right answer. My in-laws are now giving me shit for it and saying that I will be there no matter what… I’m royally pissed off now. 1. If he comes late, he will barely be a week old at thanksgiving and I don’t want him being passed around. 2. I will be healing so I don’t know if I’ll be willing to go get all dressed up to go sit at a family members house. 2. My kid, my rules. My husband doesn’t know this is going on right now, but I know he will have my back. Any advice on how to handle this without sounding completely delusional?