No sex drive/desire

Paola

So my baby is about to be 3 months. My sex drive is gone. No desire no nothing. Since I was cleared we tried 3 diff times to be intimate and I was so uncomfortable and dry,(I did want to be intimate at the times) and I wasn’t able to keep going so each time I stopped. My husband is super understanding and supportive and tells me to not worry he can wait until I’m ready but I can’t help to feel horrible. I don’t wanna try again and feel the same and leave him hanging again but then how do I know I am able to have sex again? Is it even normal to not be able to not have sex at this point? Mind you I had a c section and that is not the issue at all, the issue is I feel mild pain, and irritated down there at the moment of intercourse so I have to stop.Then once we stop and I go urinate it burns. We use condoms too, always have and never felt this so not sure what the prob is. Idk what’s wrong but I’m wondering if anyone has dealt with something similar? Any advice other than “go to dr” since I have a pending appt already. Ty ladies!!