I was told I have issues because I didn’t want to have sex. We just had a couple arguments and the only way he thinks by resolving the problem is having sex. That’s not right , at least to me it isn’t . I told him no! I don’t feel comfortable, just because he’s turned doesn’t mean I am. So he said , I’m an idiot , and I have issues . That it should say a lot about me by not wanting to have sex with him. I told him , it should say a lot to him by knowing I’m not comfortable enough to sleep with you knowing the problems we have in our relationship that’s possibly not fixable .