Anytime my boyfriend and I argue, he brings up things from the past and blames me for everything his family endures.

For example.

I bought a car with my own money, my boyfriend came along and so did his mom to see what the car was like and if it was a good vehicle.

I paid cash, test drove it and my boyfriend tells me that his mother helped me pay for it.

We rented a house, I got the landlord to give us the rent at a cheaper price b/c the house was old and needed lots of work. He said his mom got the house and that she is the only one who talked to the landlord and got it at the price because the landlord didn’t wanna talk to me.

When I got my car my boyfriend told me he wanted to be in the title. Of the car I bought. I went into the dmv and the lady advices me to get it in my name cause boyfriends come and go.

So I did just that. His mom was also pissed off.

He was mad cause he wanted to use his tag from his old vehicle and he didn’t wanna turn it to the dmv but ended up having to and losing his liscence for 30 days because he never turned it in.

I had a car insurance in mind for my car and his mom insisted I got the insurance through her company because it would be a great discount! She gotten us a multi car discount and when I got my bill it was like 480 dollars for 2 vheicles. One that was mine and one was my boyfriends. He never drove his car only mine. So we decided to take his off. When I got all my paperwork there were 16 differant drivers listed on my car from her getting us a discount through her auto insurance (this was mine and my boyfriend policy through same company but for us her name was not on it.)

I asked the insurance company why there were so many names on my insurance and did that mean they could drive my car ? Which she responded they were eligible drivers. I told her they needed to be removed because no one els should be listed in my policy as a driver.

This was a year and a half ago. I’m now being told I am the one who messed up the car insurance etc which I didn’t understand how ? My insurance went to 133 after I took off all the extra people that didn’t reside in my home or drive my vehicle on a policy only in mine and my boyfriends name. My boyfriend tells me I’m just a leech that lives off him and his family.

He goes out often, stays out all night till 6-7 am comes home drunk. While I take care of the kids take them to school. Dress then bathe then feed them and care for the. While barely caring for me anymore