Okay I met this guy in August eveything seem to be going great we were getting to know one another (well at least I thought) and the vibes were great. He ended up asking me what I wanted/looking for that way nobody wasting each other time. I told him a friendship that can turn into a relationship. He replied he wanted a relationship. I told him I didn’t want to rush things but was open. So fast forward to early this month. Things started changing he started being distant and rude saying he got a lot going on (which I can understand but still its not an excuse). I never been to his place he only wants to come over to mine. One day I asked him why he been so distant and secretive lately he replied back saying that he don’t have to see me and be around me everyday. Lately when he come over its like we only have sex. He keeps his phone on silent and always so engaged with his phone. Either he will come to have sex and leave or he coming late at night we have sex go to bed and then have sex again in the morning then he will leave. I recently asked him what was his address and he paused but said it but some thing just didn’t sit well with me. So I googled the address (remembering that he said he lived in a 4 BR with his cousin) it was a 2BR older looking house. Now going off our FaceTime calls the house is a modern house thats was probably built in the 2000’s. He has been nonchalant, rude, and distant. I’m just confused because when we first started talking he was so sweet telling me how I’m a queen and deserve nothing but the best and things like that.

Any advice?