How much are spending every month?

AB

What’s your avg monthly expenses not including house payment or car payments? We are a family of 4. Me, my husband, our two year old and a 3 month old . We put everything on our credit card and each month is like 5-6k and that DOES NOT include our mortgage, daycare or two car payments. With mtg , daycare for one kid and two car payments were looking at 9-10k a month. I feel like that’s a lot ??