After two year of this absolute nightmare, I’m starting to feel like I can’t do this every month. Whenever I get close to ovulation, I’m freaking out that myself an my husband won’t BD enough - he doesn’t have the highest libido, the pressure is getting too much on top of that and we aren’t a every other day kind of couple. We often get in maybe 2-3 times during fertile window at a push. Sometimes with tears lol (from me! Hormones!) I’ve never been pregnant.

I’m getting to the point where I desperately want a baby but can’t do this every month. What if i don’t TRY to BD throughout fertile window and just have sex whenever? Is there still a chance to conceive ? I’m scared because I’m 36 next month, no kids and don’t want to waste time… however I’m just so mentally drained by this not ever happening…