My ex is a highly abusive deadbeat. Fell off the face of the earth 4 months ago. I have a restraining order because he choked me, described how he would kidnap and torture me, threatened to kill me if I “took the kids” (tried to get full custody). We were supposed to have court 3 weeks ago for child support and he didn’t show so it went to default. When I filed, they said that child custody would be sorted in a child support case. So seeing this worries me. Does it mean he’s going for custody too? I’m so scared.