My fiancé works from 5am. Apparently he goes to load his van and then begins delivering. Lately his excuse has been that “they opened the warehouse late” so he had to wait there a couple hours. It’s 8pm and he’s still not home. We have a puppy that I care for since morning time. He lets the dog out to poop but he doesn’t clean it up, he leaves it there for me. So I have to clean it up before work, mop, then go to work, come home, I spend an hour outside with the dog, then I have to feed him and continue to clean up his business. While he walks in at 8pm, watches tv, and then goes to sleep. I thought I’d have a lot more help but I don’t. He also brings me his work assignment for me to do.. every night. How are you even working 5am-8pm?? And he doesn’t complain about it. He works with his friend so maybe that helps but I’m lonely all the time and I’m left to deal with the puppy by myself. If I knew it’d be like this I wouldn’t have gotten a dog. AND he wants to try for a baby? No thanks.

I do speak up but he makes me feel like I’m wrong. He kept saying “you’re mad at me because I’m working? Get a man that doesn’t work then”, knowing damn well that that’s not the problem. He minimizes the situation.