Ladies who moved for ur man… would u recommend it? he wants to move so that his work commute is 15 minutes but only commutes three times a week. meanwhile I have to hold out on a job until we move so that I could get something in the area that’s good for him, even tho i’ll be commuting everyday. idk, my bf and I already had a fight about this and he said I was being selfish, but I don’t think I am. I feel like if anything, i’m stuck and being the opposite of selfish, holding out on my dream job so that his commute is better.