I have no one to share this except my friend. My friend (even before this argument) has insisted I dump my bf but I feel like my bf is really sorry. Let me elaborate.

When my bf has money troubles or any kind of stress he gets ticked off easily. My friend says that’s NOT normal … in addition my bf doesn’t even like my friend because it’s a male of course.

So last night, I forgot to reply to my bf. I was at the gym and I was so focused. Him and I text back and forth a lot. I didn’t realize I hadn’t replied for an hour. Keep in mind that 1 hour is not even alot. Sometimes he doesn’t respond for 2 because he’s busy so I was mad that he’d react this way over 1 hour. Kinda hypocritical. He goes “you’re too busy or what?”

I said “oh I’m sorry babe I got too focused at the gym here with my friend. I’m being taught some stuff” and he replies with “what things?”

I explain and he doesn’t reply. I knew he was mad. Next morning which is today my phone is ringing and it’s him. I answer happily thinking he wants to talk to apologize for giving me attitude last night. I answer and he goes “hey I have a question: why did you cousin put a fire pic on your pic”

This was a pic from 2021. I rarely post and it’s weird he went back to my old pics on IG. I told him I had no clue but probably he was just saying I looked good in a supportive way. He starts to scream and he hangs up while I’m explaining to him. He calls again and I answer.

He goes “you’re fucking disgusting you pig you disgust me” hangs up.

Like wtf? All of this escalated from me not replying fast. He is going to reach out to me everything is okay I know. I was talking to his sister and she said he is broke right now and can’t handle stress

Problem is my fiend insists I break up with him. He is legit mad I’m waiting for a call from him. Idk if I should just be patient for him to be able to control his anger issues