Cervical Tear?

When should a cervical tear be concerning? Like if there is blood how much is a lot? I am aware that sometimes tears in cervix can happen due to rough sex and you can bleed afterwards and they can heal on their own. how do you know when it’s more than a small tear? I bled during sex last night (in the middle of our second time that night) and I am unsure if it’s due to the fact I did not let the tear heal long enough (about 6 days) so it reopened or if I should be more concerned. I don’t have any other symptoms and my significant other and I have been together for 7 years. No chance of any STD due to us having no other sexual partners. I am an anxious person and trying to get relief since “Dr Google” makes things 10x worse and I’m not in my home location to get an appointment with my gyno so I was trying to figure out if I need to go to a local urgent care center???