My MIL hasn’t made the effort to see her grandkids or even get to know them at all.. our boys are 4 and 2. These texts are from my fiancé and her. Any thoughts? Should we just give up? We just feel bad for our kids that they don’t have grandparents ://

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people like this always play the poor me card and get defensive when thay are being called out for doing wrong.. you can't force your children on anybody you need to accept that I would have given up a long time ago! dont ever feel bad your children don't have their grandparent in the life feel positive that you are not allowed your child to be treated like crap by this lady

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Sounds like there's much more going on here.....

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Let her create whatever relationship with then she thinks she’s creating.. when your kids don’t have a relationship with her she will find out. It’s not your job to make her a present grandparent.

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I have a MIL like yours. She gets to have no relationship with our son. Perhaps it’s time to cut out the toxic stress that she brings to your life.

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Sounds toxic. Why even bother

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It's your job to make sure she gets to see her grandkids? Oooh hell no. She needs a reality check. I would just stop even talking to her at all and I bet she will weed herself out of your life and then try to make it seem like you never let her see her grandkids 🙄

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stop making an effort for her. your kids know who cares and who doesn’t.

My MIL hasn’t made the effort to see her grandkids or even get to know them at all.. our boys are 4 and 2. These texts are from my fiancé and her. Any thoughts? Should we just give up? We just feel bad for our kids that they don’t have grandparents ://

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