My husband is very passionate about his career, let’s just say its his dream come true. I was always very supportive to since we first met. I understood his long work hours, days at a row he spent outside of town, his mood swings and stress. His job causes me so much anxiety and is in the way of me living the life I’ve always dreamt of. I made the sacrifice because i love him and dont want to be selfish, instead I always showed him that I’m grateful and proud of him. I put him first always, kiss on him, love him unconditionally and dont let literally a minute pass by without me reminding him that i love him ( until i can see he is visibly annoyed). Im not saying I’m a perfect wife, I have my flaws and mistakes and I work on them but one thing he Never has to doubt is my unconditional love for him.

We were watching a show and the debate was if the guest would choose his career over his love. I turn to my husband and ask him the same question. He kinda smirked and didn’t answer at first , after me insisting he said “ id choose both my career and you@. I was like you wouldn’t choose me first over anything? He looked at me and said “are you serious? I would choose my career first, thats my dream thats what i do and what makes me happy. I always dreamt of becoming this i didn’t dream of getting married”. It kinda hurt my feelings cause i thought he loved me unconditionally like i do. I would in a heartbeat choose him over anyone and anything. Is it wrong i feel this way? Is it wrong I’m hurt that the level of love isn’t mutual? Should I start distancing myself and being more selfish? Help!