Hello everyone! I hope you all have a good day.

Maybe i'm just venting or maybe i'm looking for other people's perspective even i'm not sure so bare with me.

So, me 27 f and my long term boyfriend 35 we've been dating for 7 years now. We are kind of struggling in the last year or two even though we love each other very much we don't really act like a couple anymore.

Even though i know we're both unhappy i can't pull myself together to leave because he lost all his family, last being his mom in 2020 to wich i made a promise to be there for him and i've been waiting for things to at least get better in his life so i know that he will be alright.

Our sex life is pretty much dead (he is never interested in having sex since his mother passed away), we are stressed all the time with work and our living situation, we argue a lot lately and things don't feel right.

For context, he grew very much since we have been together on all plans but what i've been waiting for was for him to buy himself a house so i would be sure that he will have a roof over his head always because he doesn't have anyone else to really rely on. He now has a piece of land and next year the plan is to start building the house.

The thing is i feel like i can't make it that long but my heart hurts when i'm thinking about leaving him in a low moment.

Sorry for any mistakes but English is not my first language.