Bath time struggles

My 3 yo daughter HATES getting her hair washed. I feel I’ve tried every avenue and she still has a fear of getting water in her eyes/ears. Even tried the water hat, but I feel that she’s lost trust in me to not get the water in her eyes because it’s happened before. 😢 How do I gain her trust back? I hate forcing her to do something she doesn’t want to do, but her hair needs to be washed! I broke down in tears last night after her bath because she just hates it so much, but I sat there for 30 minutes trying to convince her to wash her hair and it was a total no! What can I do to make bath time a less stressful situation for the both of us?

Also, please anyone with similar stories feel free to share! It’ll help me feel better. 😢