My partner says I do or say things that turn him off. These are the last 3 instances that made him say that

- I turned the AC on instead of the fan he requested, so I wasn’t “ listening “. & I didn’t wake him up when I left ( even though he was being a asshole all morning & i knew he would be rude if I woke him up)

- I admit I check in a lot on where he is emotionally with me ( asking if he loves me, if he wants to be with me still, if he’s still happy here) & I guess that’s annoying.

- I do complain about us spending more time together, having more sex, etc.

He says things like “ see this is why we’re not having sex, you (insert random reason) “ I am trying to be the best girlfriend I can. I’ve tried to stop complaining. I cook, clean, go to school full time and he sits at home dirtys the house, plays video games, or sits on his phone all day, and expects me to treat him like a king. He does a lot that turns me off but I don’t rub it in his face or keep sex from him