Are anyone else's kids worse when u do nice things for them?

Question

I have 3 daughters and they are all pretty well behaved for the most part just normal kid fights hear and there what have you... BUT everytime we do something nice for them, like a little vacation, or trip to a big new park or to fair ect. The hole time they fight they don't listen they argue they and act soooo bad. I can't figure out why? Anyone else have this issue? Of ideas? Lol

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I'm curious to hear the responses. My problem is my  4.5yo acts like a monster AFTER anytime we do something nice together or I do something nice with her like baking or crafting

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My kids don’t do this often, but me and my sisters all did it when we were kids. All I know is that I was 500% overwhelmed by doing new things and having to deal with my sisters’ and my mom’s nonsense on top of it made me extra overwhelmed. I was usually angry and sad and tired all at the same time. And my mom was always upset because one of us was upset and her being upset often ruined whatever we were doing. So as a parent I just expect my kids will be overwhelmed by new adventures and I expect we’ll all be a little miserable at some point, and I think having lower expectations helps.

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I don’t have this problem but i did notice after a holiday they may get out of their routine which affects their sleep
But no major issues
Next time they do it just cancel the outing and go home and make them do homework or housework. I’ve done this before! 🙈

Are anyone else's kids worse when u do nice things for them?

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