I’m sleeping over my grandparents tomorrow cause we have my uncles funeral service Friday. Well anyways my gram just told me we are going to my other uncles tomorrow for dinner to celebrate my cousins birthday early… is it rude not to get her a gift ? I mean I’m not currently working so I don’t have extra money to just throw around. Not to mention my birthday just passed recently and she works and didn’t get me a card or anything… I mean I can make her a card but that’s about it. But I feel a bit rude because I can’t afford anything and my uncle tends to judge