so me and my partner have been together for 5 months.

Yesterday I picked up my daughter up from my grandparents house and came home and my partner said “ I’m not talking to you right now just leave me alone” and I was like … ummmm wtf ?? Sooooo confused. So I asked her why? And what have I done wrong? Then she blew up and told me to fuck off and pushed me out the door way and went into the garage and sat at the door so no one could get in.

Then she starts msging me and sending me pictures of things with ADHD, saying I don’t understand.. and blah blah blah

Now my 3 year old was trying to open the door to see her but she wouldn’t let us in. That was really upsetting.

After yelling at me and acting like a child, I left her be for 2.5 hours and I just did my own thing, put my daughter to bed at 7, had a shower and didn’t bother her.

By 8pm we have a talk and I just listen cause I’m so scared if I say something wrong she will blow up again. Then she says she hates being her and she hates her fucking life cause of ADHD ( she’s not medicated ) and I said to her nice and calmly “ do you think you want to go talk to someone again”? And she looked at me and said “ talk to someone WHAT THE FUCK BROOKE” and I said don’t speak to me like that and I rolled over and started to cry.. and then she said why are you crying and I said I just want to go to sleep, mind you my daughter has been sick for 4 days with high temps so I haven’t slept.

Anyways after I said I want to go to sleep she swings the blankets off and said fuck this .. and walks out and goes and sleeps on the lounge… she left for work the smorning and I got nothing from her so when she left I just cried. I’m so confused and hurt and angry I don’t know what to do.. :( it’s like only her feelings matter because she has ADHD , she uses it as an excuse for everything .. I’m just so confused and hurt by lastnight i just need some advice