So my daughter is 3 (turned 3 in July) we’ve been trying to potty train her for some time now, she will sit on a little plastic potty for a while but hasn’t really grasped the concept. She’s also in daycare full time and in order for her to move up to the preschool room she needs to be potty trained. The issue is she’s terrified of toilets and all the daycare has is a tiny toddler sized actual toilet. The teacher has informed me that when they try to take my daughter to the toilet she screams bloody murder as she is terrified, so they can’t really force it as that will get them in trouble since she’s practically in hysterics. She has a very strong personality btw so if she wants or doesn’t want something she will make it known. I just don’t know what to do, my son potty trained so easy but he was also willing and asking to use a toilet. Whereas my daughter has no interest at all. She also has a lot of sensory issues and is very moody so like she will be playing and having a blast then within seconds she will be freaking out about absolutely nothing.

Any tips? I’m one stressed momma and I think I may have stressed my daughters teacher out today when I said we were trying the potty training again. I adore her teacher so I feel bad. She did let me know that we have to be serious in the training as she has 3 other kids training at the moment which is a lot.