That’s right you read the title correctly, my partner and I have been together on and off for 3 years and I just had a surprise baby, I have really bad stomach issues and I’ve always been weird with my periods so I didn’t think anything about it until my cramping I was feeling didn’t feel right and surprise I was actually in labour. My partner and I live two hours apart and I was in shock not knowing what to do or who to call so I called him and a woman picked up the phone. Now I had been suspicious of him cheating on me but wasn’t able to confirm anything. Lone behold the woman on the phone was his wife! They’d been together for 15 years and was to the understanding that he was infertile and couldn’t have children so now she’s asking for a paternity test claiming it’s not his and that I’m some childish woman looking to take him for his money.

Everything I ever knew about him is a lie, his job he claimed to have is fake, all the money I spent because he was going through financial difficulties was a lie! He owns his own business which is doing quite well for itself.

Now I’m here with a newborn, with absolutely no baby items and no clue what I’m doing just to find out that the man of my dreams is a fraud!

Update; I have contacted my parents who luckily are retired and are flying to come help me out, my cousin just recently had an adoption fall through and has offered to lend me her baby items she has. As for my job due to my health issues a week ago I began working remotely- thank goodness for that. My father has reached out to an old friend of his who has a son that is a lawyer to assist me through this process. Everything is starting to make more sense now all the little things that I questioned are adding up, he lied to me about his age, his name, his financial situation, hell even the pet dog he told me he had growing up was a lie- he’s allergic!

I have spoken to his wife a little more and provided her with proof that I did not know he was married, and I have agreed to do a paternity test. According to her he stated that all these trips to visit me he was claiming he was going to visit his elderly sick parents (turns out they passed away four years ago!) and that I’m not the only woman he has been fooling around with he has an entire family with a different lady, they have 5 children together!

My life feels like a badly written book