If your partner is going through depression and by default not spending time with you, barely talking to you, making you question the relationship is it worth still being it? I don’t mean to sound like a dickhead leaving when things get tough. But I also need to prioritise myself and what I need in a relationship. For me what’s the point of being in something if you feel alone all the time. I’ve tried again and again to support him etc but whatever I do just isn’t enough or right and whenever I try to communicate it ends up me being told I don’t understand and when I question it, “it’s life” “everything” so I don’t know how to help. He won’t get therapy. Wont go to the doctors etc. Any recommendations on what you would need or what works for you if you’re also in this situation. I do love him. I want a future with him, but I don’t want to lose myself in the process.