Ever since having both my kids I have zero desire or energy to have sex with my husband. God I love him to death but thinking of sex or being in the mood make me angry and makes me feel no desire. My husband is 3 years younger than me and he has a high sex drive and I feel awful when I can’t meet his needs, I feel like Ive become his roommate though we still cuddle and sleep in the same bed. Does this ever get better does the roommate phase ever end. I’m a SAHM and work from home so I’m with my kids round the clock till my husband comes home from work. Having zero sex drive sometimes drives me bananas, has anyone every experienced this. I wanted to add we do have sex but not as often as before, we use to have sex a couple of times every week and now it’s about 3 times a month which is awful to me.