Ok I really need help with this

So me and this guy we matched on tinder a month ago and we’ve been talking but taking things slow

he’s a college boy *24* and I’m 22, he’s the outgoing type and is very social while I’m very introverted and shy

Now we’ve gone on 4 different dates and he’s slept at my house a few times and I’ve slept at his, we seem to have a good connection, but at the same time idk

Well recently he went to the club with his best friend and i got upset even though we’re just talking..

he told me he wanted to take things slow *since we literally just met on tinder* but where I need help is.. he’s saying he wants to take it slow but is actively spamming girls with likes and following a new girl every other day, we’re literally just talking right now but I’ve always done serious relationships and I’m confused

Am I getting led on or treated like an option..?

When we’re together time stops but when we’re apart…? Idk it’s stupid somebody pls give me advice.. he calls me everyday *I don’t even ask him to which is cute and I like * he messages me everyday But he’s also giving other girls attention ughh