My mother and I have a strained relationship. I am her only daughter. Yesterday she went off on me and said she thinks I’m a bad mother, I have no friends and I don’t travel and that my home is always dark !?. She called me a miserable person and said all types of horrible things to me. This year is one of the hardest years of my life my husband and I divorced because he was abusive and we have a small child my 2 year old, she called him a bum said I knew he was a bum and threw the marriage in my face. She said I want a pity party from everyone and the list goes on. I don’t understand how a Mother can be so hurtful so nasty and tell their child nobody cares what you went thru you’re nothing special . Then she told me she hopes my daughter grows up to be nothing like me!! I feel like this is verbal abuse and it’s disgusting. I am trying to raise my daughter alone , I have no money and I’m barely scrapping by. No human being should be degraded in this way. Today she text me and acts as if nothing happened I didn’t respond. Mind you she lives down the street from me I am in the process of looking to move because I can’t stand being near her . At this point I don’t know what to do, she said it isn’t degrading it’s the truth about me. She even went on to say some random guy in her community said I don’t speak and he feels I’m nasty. I don’t even know this man. I suffer from depression and I am overwhelmed I am not a outgoing person. How should I handle my Mom? Any advice… I have been crying all day .. oh and here’s the kicker she claims to be a Christian behaving this way.