Update- Husband's D pics

I'm not gonna lie I kinda went on a tangent when confronting him about the D pics. Which ofc pissed him off majorly. But anyways, he says he took them to send to me but remembered Im not a big fan of D pics and decided not to. We've been together a long time so I'm kinda skeptical about that excuse. Plus I've heard it before. He is also comparing his D pics to the billion selfies I have in my phone that I don't send to him. I dont see how it's the same. My self esteem is lower since having kids which is why I take a billion pics when I'm feeling cute. Then I end up hating the pics and don't even post them or anything. I don't send them to anyone.

** Yes, fully clothed selfies that I take of myself**