Advice needed! Anyone used these tests and had the numbers drop?
According to my ovulation day I'm 5weeks 4days today. I took a digital weeks indicator test on 3rd November and it said 3+ weeks, then all say yesterday I've been having off and on Cramping pains and this today said 2-3, so my hcg is dropping in my urine.
I've had 6 miscarriages. Please can anyone give me any words of comfort or help? I have a vaginal scan tomorrow but I'm so so scared to go in and be told that I'm miscarrying again.
The pains are almost unbearable but I haven't started bleeding yet. I'm 99% sure I'm miscarrying but I'm desperately trying to tell myself that it might still be okay.
Has anyone else had this happen and gone on to have a healthy baby? I'm trying to convince myself that maybe the tests are super temperamental, but the pains are telling me it's probably another miscarriage starting.
I'm so heartbroken and done. I think I'll have to stop and just accept it after this, the emotional toll is just too much.
Update: Scan couldn't see any sign of uterine pregnancy, and given that my ovulation day puts me at 5weeks6days there should have at least been an empty sac even if no fetal pole was visible. But there was nothing. So the sonographer has referred me to the hospital for another scan and bloods tomorrow because they said its most likely an ectopic given that my tests are still coming back positive. So I'm heartbroken obviously, but I'm also terrified about the idea of needing a surgery to remove a fallopian tube.
I'm honestly done. I don't want to TTC anymore. I can't handle it. I'm sad and devastated and this isn't how I thought life would be for me as I always wanted a big family with lots of children. Anyway, sending baby dust to all of you who are trying. ❤️
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