My husband and I have been together for 8 years. Within those years we’ve been trying to get pregnant but at the same time enjoying each other’s company, freedom, and loving each other as husband and wife. Now we’ve found out I am pregnant and he isn’t too happy. I asked him what has changed and it seems like he isn’t ready for the changes that are about to come or the sacrifices that we will be needing to make (like no more traveling for awhile). I’d understand that isn’t easy for some but at this point we are 30 years old and not teens. We need to mature and grow up, and let alone what were we doing these 8 years if you didn’t want this? He knew what this was from the very beginning and until we got married. Now we are suddenly having conversations about not being together and me giving him an out but he won’t be no part of the babies life. This is just like a nightmare to me. I am heartbroken. What was I doing with this man for all those years if it was going to come down to this. Yes, I have been trying to understand him, listen to him, and see his point of view. I never wanted a broken marriage or a broken home for my baby. I feel like he was leading me on for what? And money ain’t an issue. I don’t know what is going on and I always say, hey you can trust me and just tell me what’s going on. Can there be someone else?