Not feeling pleasure from sex?

Does anybody else not really get pleasure from penetrative sex? I don’t feel much down there except for pressure. Anyone else experience this? I have a very loving and supporting boyfriend who always makes sure I finish first with oral and tries his absolute best to make me feel good during penetrative sex. But I just don’t feel anything at all and it’s starting to not become a pleasurable experience for me. I’m a SA survivor by an old boss and an ex boyfriend. Ever since then I haven’t been able to finish from penetrative sex even with myself using toys/fingers. It sucks because my boyfriend sometimes tries to blame himself but I reassure him it’s definitely not him but me. I’m just curious if anyone else has gone through something similar? If so, did y’all find anything that helped?