Did you stay with the guy who cheated on you ?

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Did you give him another chance ? Why ? Why not?

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My ex husband was a serial cheat.
I stayed. 
It was abusive from all angles, he was financially abusive towards me, keeping track of every penny in and out of his bank so I had no financial way of getting out. 
He cheated on me any opportunity he got, I gave birth to our daughter and he was at a party and when I was discharged I walked in on a girl naked in my bed and alcohol bottles all around the apartment. 
I did leave but did get back with him, he did cheat again and I just got numb to it. I got numb to all the abuse he put me through. Ultimately, I knew that I would have put up with the cheating if he wasnt abusive in the other ways. I know ot sounds pathetic, but I was pretty pathetic and had the lowest self esteem whilst I was with him. 
Now, my partner would never cheat on me, he knows I wouldnt cheat on him either. 
He has built me up, made me into someone I am proud of for the children.
Know your worth.

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I know a few who have and their relationship has been better than before. I think it’s different if it happens before marriage. If it happens after marriage, you have to divide a whole marriage, legally divorce, and if you have kids, uproot them so there’s more incentive to work it out sometimes. I also think the context of the cheating is important.  It is different, imo, when things are fine at home and a person goes out to cheat just for the sake of doing it. It is different when the relationship is going through something rocky and things get messy and people make mistakes but have apologetic hearts willing to do the work and change. Example: a friend of mine had caught her hubs talking to another woman. They had become distant with each other and neither were trying. Then her dad died and she started talking to someone at her work about her emotions and it turned into an affair. She felt horrible, changed her job, went to counseling, and her and her husband realized they both contributed to this situation and did the work and are more in love than ever.

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never stay w someone after them cheating on u

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Unfortunately I did. My ex cheated on me a handful of times. At least once I know of was physical, the others were more talking to other women. We would break up and get back together. Went on for about 3 years then I finally got the courage to end it once and for all. I’m way happier now and found someone that doesn’t treat me like shit. 
Don’t stay with someone that is going to cheat on you. It’s just heartbreak after heartbreak and it doesn’t get any better. And it’s not worth it.

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Why would you stay with a man that cheated when there are men out there that won’t even look at another woman? 😬

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No. Why would I stay with someone who betrayed and disrespected me

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I did and he kept doing it. I finally gained the confidence and strength to leave him for good. we have 2 kids together and I was holding on for the family image and it’s not worth it. he will continue to cheat if you take him back he’s just not the one

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nope I don't like the horns and am nobody's sidechick. he could have gotten the whole package deal but he wasn't worth any of my time. NEXT!!

Did you stay with the guy who cheated on you ?

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