I had my daughter 6 months ago and to say i’m completely stressed is an understatement. Men seriously just don’t see how useless they really are in the household. We carry the child for nine months and still have to “cater” to their needs or we are looked at as not doing “our duties” meanwhile we are creating an entire life inside of us, going through major changes, insecurities and our problems are always looked at as whining. But as soon as we explode it’s oh your crazy . I’m seriously tired of hearing it’s a woman’s job. Us as woman have to have the children, pick ourselves up after caring the child for 9 months then take care of the children , cook , clean and cater to a man that only thinks helping financially is the only thing they should do.

We don’t live in the 1960’s anymore and i’m honestly tired of these maleBABIES! My boyfriend literally lacks the comprehension that I need his help as a PARENT and adult not just financially. Whenever it’s time for him to parent he looks to me for help or the answers or everything is half ass. If it’s mom jobs then really what’s a dad job? To give money and lay around.?! This is why sooo many women go through PPD or simply leave their relationships I see it now! We don’t even have our own place but we live with my mom and he expects me to be a wife for free! Absolutely not! I tell him all the time if I moved in with him I would literally be miserable, he would be gone all day while I’m home with our dogs and baby that’s absurd. And still expects for me to cook , clean and have sex with him after being stressed from having our baby all day and all other responsibilities lying on me outside of finances. But because he “provides”that’s where it ends for him. He does little things with his daughter and thinks it’s on the same level and looks for applause. I do damn near everything and he justify it as “your the female it’s your job”. I don’t look for applause just some damn assistance! I’m tired of asking for assistance when it’s just not given already! Instead i’m hit with “it’s a mom job”

We don’t date , I barely get his time , it doesn’t even feel like a relationship anymore and I’ve voiced this to him many times to the point that I feel like i’m coming off as nagging. I’m tired of talking and I honestly deserve better at this point..i’m literally emotionally drained. I’m tired!