So I’m 31, he’s 32. We’ve been together 3 years, we’re engaged and planning to get married Summer 2024. And also planning to buy a house summer 2023. I’m in Nursing school and If all goes well, I’ll be graduating May 2024.

Ideally, I would want to start trying for a baby after our wedding. Only issue is, my fiancée thinks he can’t have babies. In his past serious relationships, there’s been many times where they didn’t use protection. And none of the girls got pregnant until their next relationship. Now, idk if these girls purposely didn’t want a baby or if they did and just gave up on him because he couldn’t give them one.

He recently started seeing a doctor but the first visit was just a physical and blood work. His next appointment should be tests to see if he can or cannot. I know I’m getting way ahead of myself but I know it takes some couples years to get a positive so I’m wondering if we should start trying now. He would love a baby now, like right now lol. I already have 2 girls from a previous relationship who are 9 and 10. My daughters want a sibling and I’m not getting any younger 😅 so the clock is ticking. We both have baby fever. My sister and his sister both recently had babies (not together, with their man). School is my priority right now but I’m just scared that the longer we wait, the harder it will be.

Has anyone been in my shoes? If so, what did you do? What was the outcome?