It’s common knowledge you’re not supposed to wear white to a wedding. I think everyone knows that by now

But what about bridal showers??? Is that not common knowledge?? I though you weren’t supposed to wear white to ANYTHING bridal related unless you’re the bride… the bridal shower, the bachelorette party, the wedding etc.

I had my bridal shower over the weekend and we set up the day before and after we were done setting up I told my sister I needed her opinion on which dress to wear because I was having issues with 2… one was too long and also had a yellow tint instead of being fully white, and my other one which was fully white was meant to sit about the knee but because I’m so short, it sat below and I felt like it might be an awkward length…. Regardless she was well aware which ever one I chose, the point was it was white

The day of the party comes and I’m finishing setting up last minute things like the food and my sister and her kids come in the house and my sister is wearing all white!!

I really don’t know if I’m in my own head about this but she’s my maid of honor and it’s been HELL trying to get help from her or literally any of my other bridesmaids. I can barley get a text back from anyone about the wedding planning and even when I ask someone to specifically help me with something, they either ignore me or they tell me they will get it done and then last minute tell me they didn’t do it

I don’t know if this is just another way of her showing me she’s not being supportive or what 😭

My grandma who is a huge asshole and sooooo mean to me about my weight, my acne etc. also wore white to the bridal shower so I don’t know…. I know it’s not as big of a deal as if they wore white to the wedding, but it’s still rude is it not????

I just feel like I’m not getting any support 😭 I’ve done 99% of the wedding planning by myself and after the bridal shower and all the guests were gone, my fiancé was working on getting the decor and gifts into the car and my dad started telling me how bad it is that we aren’t getting married in a church and basically told me I’m going to go to hell and won’t be accepted into our religion anymore if I don’t get our wedding blessed 😭😭

God I could write a paragraph and then some about all the shit that happened at the party but I doubt anyone would read that far…. Just know this whole wearing white thing is only the tip of the iceberg on why I feel like I’m not supported by any of my friends and family

Am I being an ass and overreacting or is wearing white wrong??