Hi ladies well i have been with my partner for 12 years, sex life is amazing but 1 thing that makes me really frustrated with myself is that i dont know how to initiate sex!

Dont get me wrong im not shy in bed , im not vanilla (even though theres nothing wrong with that) but once we get to it i’m full on fiery but i dont know how to initiate it or i feel like im anxious to initiate.

Even though i do sometimes but mostly its him.

And my man comes home late and like to play some games or read some articles on his phone before he goes to bed and he’s so much in his zone that i don feel comfortable approaching him.

Egh this is alot of work. HELPP YOUR GIRL OUT