I’ve struggled with an eating disorder my whole life, my older sister has as well. I’m 22 & married with two kids. She is 29 and single. I’ve been in recovery for 4 years now, but after i recently just had my second child, i am struggling a lot. I am still actively choosing recovery everyday, but still mentally I am struggling a bit. My sister on the other hand is full on engaging in her eating disorder more than ever right now. My whole family has been trying for months to get her help but she fights them every time and refuses. Seeing her is VERY triggering for me right now. Well, this friday is my daughters birthday and my sister wants to come to it of course. But I have no idea what to do. I would feel like a huge asshole if I tell her she can’t come. But also, i genuinely don’t know if I can handle seeing her right now. What would you do?