So I’m in a same sex relationship ! Just to start off my wife and I ( me carrying ) just experienced our second miscarriage with the same donor . We have gotten myself genetic testing done and each time everything came back with no red flags and all my testing came back clear and healthy . We don’t have any genetics testing from our donor besides the fact the we know he has a set of healthy twins . I guess I am asking should we continue to use this donor again and just get genetic testing done for him ? Or should we just use a different donor ? Although This was heart breaking we do want to heal and try again within the next three months !