My marriage is starting to suck…

Ive been married for 5 years now. We had a argument this morning over text because i didnt want to have sex last night.performance hasnt been well…then he changes subject in conversation and says that im disrespectful bc in the mornings when hes off ill turn on the room light to get my clothes ill then turn light off and go get dressed in the restroom…. I just feel like hes nit picking at me….

Im sorry but when I kindly explain to you how I feel about our sex life & suggest ideas for us to try and you proceed to call me a liar & cheater then NO i am not going to be nice anymore so please stop with the “tearing him down” shit & I wont be bullied into sex just so he can get off. If I recommend pills its insuting, if I recommend a toy he thinks im not satisfied with his size. We do foreplay & it ends the same everytime. Once hes done he turns over and wants to sleep. Try to get it back up and it wont go..

**late edit. The only reason we are texting because he left home like at 2am bc i didnt wanna have sex and was gone til about 3pm