My husband confessed that he never wanted children. I asked him why the heck he would marry someone who does and pretend like he does to. If i knew he felt this way i would never have married him. He said he just didnt think about it at the time and he wanted to wait and see what happens. Im so resentful. Ive been with him 10 years, we have 2 little girls now. He keeps asking if i am taking BC every day, he keeps saying how i need to be responsible at any inconvenience and mentions that the babies weren’t supposed to be here and that life only becomes difficult. I asked him if he would consider getting cut and he said no, because what if we split and he meets a woman who wants a baby?. Im so done with this man. I am considering a divorce now