So my period was on the 7th. I think my ovulation is on the 23rd, today 20th a fertile window and we BD, since it has to be a few days before ovulation. We are attempting the gender sway girl which I know is not 100% unless <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a>. It was very shallow ejaculation all in cervix, which I had to clean out with finger inside, because I was upset with husband for needing to watch online stuff to ejaculate even though we were at it for almost 2 hrs and he was struggling. I was a little grossed out so I washed out. Because I didn't want to conceive with dirty thoughts watching that.( I know it's stupid, but I was not feeling well ATM) Does that mean I likely wash the most sperms out or less likely to get pregnant? I did wait like 5 mins. I'm kinda regretting it now because we have to wait 2 more days right at ovulation day ( which means more likely to convince boy.) I know this sounds silly, just ignore you if don't like it or just plan on leaving unexplained answers. If it's not true, then explain.