Nuvaring fail

J💜

I just found out I'm pregnant. We have a 5 yr old and a little one who will be 1 next week. Me and my partner decided a long time ago that we are done. His vasectomy appt is Friday! I have been on the nuvaring since January, last month my pharmacy got me a generic brand since they couldn't get nuvaring. I took it out a week ago and never got my period, tested this morning and boom the line popped up right away. We are so happy with the 2 we have, I'm not even back to work from mat leave yet, we are getting married in July, I barely survived this last one since he was a reflux baby. The plan is to go ahead with abortion, but it's so hard. And I'm not sure if I should do medical or surgical. I have 2 kids to care for at home.