Hi moms,

I had my baby 1 week and 2 days ago, I’m so I love with him. But I really need advice from women who have experience dealing with toxic baby fathers. I have not been enjoying my baby as much as I should because the baby’s father has been stressing me out to the point that for the past week I’ve been crying. He acuses me of things that don’t make sense and genuinely leaves me confused. We have never been in any kind of relationship, this was a one night stand that got me pregnant. We decided to coparent and so far that’s not been going well. Being around him makes me miserable and depressed & he’s been here in my apartment to visit the baby almost everyday and that’s suffocating me. Realistically speaking how many days out of the week should he see his son? I really can’t have him here everyday, it’s not good for my mental health. All I can think about is all the stress and anxiety he put me through all throughout my pregnancy and even now while I’m recovering. PLEASE HELP this is my first time being a mom. He has also been talking about taking the baby out of the state because the neighborhood where I live in is bad. And that’s been stressing me out even more. Does he have the right to take my baby away? I’m scared and I’m so mentally exhausted. He’s been doing this for so long idk what to do.