I have been talking to this guy for about 4 months now . I'm starting to really like him. We are both very busy . With me working 40 hours a week and then I go to school at night for 20 hours a week. And then he also works 40 hours and then has a job at night working another 20 to 35.

I like talking to him. We have the same type or humor, and we have petty issues when we both are just being bratty to each other, but nothing is ever too bad we always talk it out. We both have a very high sex drive but haven't had the time to do anything cause of our schedules. We have not even kissed yet.

My issues is back when I first met him through a mutual freind. And they spoke about me . He told our friend that he had never been with a black girl before, so he was very intrigued by that . (He is white. And grew up in the country near people who flew the American flag and used the hard R )

I dont wanna be just some experiment for him to figure out if he like back girls or not and I also will be heartbroken if the only reason he talks to me or seems interested is because I'm black .

I really don't know what to do an at a complete loss..help