On Saturday we had a party for my husbands brother. We have 3 kids that go to bed starting at 8.

We started the party about 7:30 and I was out there after putting our younger 2 kids to sleep. So I was out there around 8:15.

I wasn’t planning on drinking much because of people we don’t know being there. My husband was drunk really early on and continued to party. I went inside at 11, we only have 1 bathroom. So women would come in the house to use the bathroom and would be so loud.

It was 2 in the morning and I was texting my husband that it’s late and to try to get people to leave. Literally 2 AM!

Most of the people there have 0 kids so can do whatever the next day. Not us! All people didn’t leave until 3. I couldn’t sleep with so many people coming in and out of the house.

So he gets in at 3 and I have had it. I told him I was upset it was so late and I couldn’t sleep.

We wake up the next morning and HE is in the worst mood ever. I woke up and cleaned our kitchen, made the kids breakfast. He slept until 9:30, woke up mad and ignored me most of the day.

We went to a surprise birthday party for me brother Sunday and he was such an ass. It was literally horrible and embarrassing how he was behaving. I didn’t make him go, he went to make me mad.

Now we talked about it and it turned into a huge argument over how I care more about my brother because I said I didn’t feel like partying on Saturday. I said I didn’t want to get drunk with so many people I don’t know.

Ugh. I’m so frustrated.