Sex drive

10 weeks and finally getting my sex drive back. I feel so bad for my husband lol. I had a tiny SCH (less than 1cm) and my spotting has been gone for weeks. My OB told me pelvic rest until no spotting for two weeks. I haven’t bled at all in probably 3 1/2. I’m so nervous to have sex but ugh, my marriage needs it. I need it. Do any of you have this fear and how to get over it?