Welp, I am here once again because I have no one else to talk to about this issue. So i'm wondering if you guys have any thoughts on the issue and what you make of it.

I have been tracking how often my husband and I have sex because I noticed we don't do it often and so I figure maybe I should track it to have an accurate number on how many times we actually do it.

In the timeframe of three months we had sex three times.

I am honestly so confused because he never initiates it, I always have to ask for it. I was walking around without underwear today and he didn't even touch me. He doesn't randomly spank my ass or even grab it. He doesn't feel up on me whenever no one is looking.

I thought it was he was trying to be respectful at first but I noticed that even when we are alone he doesn't touch me. He rarely compliments me and literally I have been craving flowers and gifts so bad because of all these romantic TikToks I have seen and I have even sent him some thinking maybe he'll do something but nope.

I don't know what to do I don't know if I am making something out of nothing... I really don't know. Help guys

Update: I asked him about these things again and he said that he is attracted to me and that he's sure there's some things i dont like about him. Then proceeded to say he's tired good night... so what does this even mean lol

Update: He slept it off and the next day and the days following that he was more vocal about my appearance and more hands on and it has helped me feel better about things I guess I just needed to talk to him about it thanks guys for not letting me overthink things too much you guys rock