Birthday and super annoyed

Todays my birthday and I know it’s thanksgiving. I haven’t been feeling well this past week and I’m not going to my family’s thanksgiving dinner because it’s 2 hours away and I’m 7 months pregnant so it’s just best to stay home. I wasn’t going to my fiancés family because I was sick the last week and his sister has a newborn and I didn’t want to risk getting her newborn sick because of Covid and RSV. So we decided to not go or just do a small drive by and say hi.

Now my fiancé is like oh we are going over around 3pm and I was like I thought we were going or we were just going over but he wants to stay the whole time, however my family wants to call me later on today and FaceTime to sing happy birthday to me since I can’t be with them. Now he’s acting annoyed with me and not talking to me. I thought we were just saying hi but he literally cannot just do what I want to do for one day and he’s obsessed with being with his family. But like what about what I want to do. He sees his family almost every weekend and on some weeknights. It’s not like he doesn’t spend time with them