pressure to announce my pregnancy

Ari

so i’m 18 about to be 19 and i’m 9 weeks along. i’m not showing or anything and i’m just not ready to tell the world i’m pregnant you know? but yesterday my dad told me to tell my grandparents who are religious, which i did. they took it as well as they could but that’s all i wanted to do. when i got back inside my parents started to ask me questions on how they took the news but like my family is around. then my noisy aunt wanted to know and my parents almost like forced me to tell her and it escalated to telling my whole immediate family. so now my family knows which i’m not totally upset about but now my dad is on the phone with his uncle and telling him my business. like i don’t like that. he’s just telling people and i was honestly not really ready to tell people that i’m pregnant. i wanted to tell people when i started to show you know? i’m still so early but my family talks and i don’t like being the center of that somewhat negative attention. my parents really never understood that i’m very private about my life. i’m private about my relationship. i’m just ranting at this point.