Long story short I’ll send him money for something specific and he doesn’t spend it on that…

For example …

I sent him 25$ for a haircut and he sent it to his friend cuz he needed gas .

I send him 50$ for a car part he showed me the quote and everything he spent it on weed.

Yea sometimes he’ll spend the money on what he says but the times he doesn’t He never admits to it I always catch him through cash app. He doesn’t have a job at the moment I’m the only one working and pregnant.

I’ve addressed him twice now and I found out he did it again today. It was his bday Friday so I sent him 150 clearly put for his bday , gave him 115 for the light bill , and 125 for a new tire …he ran through the 150 for his bday on whatever but with the other money Sent his bm 100$ for his kids and 80$ to his friend. The bills aren’t paid and I still have a dummy tire on my car. The money gone I’m so frustrated. And I haven’t told him I seen it yet. Like yea I can buy it myself now but it’s the principle you know ? I work all day So I have him run my errands ..

I’m really thinking about leaving him over it becasue I can’t trust him or should I stay and we work through it ?